What Does a Bra-Fit Expert Do?

In a society that either hypersexualises big breasts or barely tolerates their existence, the job of a bra-fit expert is much more than finding a woman her right size bra.

In my line of work, as a bra-fit expert, I work with women of all shapes and sizes every day. And one thing I find common among all is how they constantly feel inadequate in their own bodies, and with themselves in the larger sense. Some women find their breasts too small, not enough to create that coveted décolletage, and some too large that they are often shamed for putting theirs out on display. And this is the most challenging yet the most rewarding part of what I do, making women fall in love with their bodies again!

Before the fitting

Let me walk you through the process. Women I generally work with recognize themselves as busty, curvy or plus-sized. I also work with young mums. When they reach out to me, they have generally been slapping a bra on, because you know, they must. Shoulders reeling under the pressure of their bra straps, backs hunching, hiding in loose baggy clothes – feeling underwhelmed with their lives.

After the fitting

During the fitting, they learn about bras, their breast profile, what works for them and why. More importantly, they are introduced to roomier (with cup sizes up to O) yet well-fitted bras that are so comfortable, that they seem to be tailored precisely for their comfort.

This, right here, then sets in a chain reaction. When they discover and try on their new size, they stare at me in disbelief for a while. they stare at the mirror, admiring their oh-so-serendipitously-found waistline for a very long time. When we are done, they walk away standing taller – more confident and comfortable in their bodies, feeling lighter on their feet, looking two sizes smaller, their body feeling loved and breasts well supported.

We all dress on the outside according to societal norms, company policies, parents-in-laws, according to other people's wishes/rules/permission. But when we dress on the inside, close to our body, we do it for ourselves! Once women find the variety and range of different styles in their sizes, they also move away from the usual black, white and beige to wild colors, animal prints, neon pinks and greens!

This is a lovely process to witness and be a catalyst for: to see a woman find her voice and a safe place to express herself.